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Tuesday, 01 September 2009

  • Life is good, really good.

    Kept running into your ex  because you are in the same circle is interesting, very interesting. When I was sitting there at the same table with C, I realized, not being with him is probably the best thing I’ve ever done for myself. It is strange how I appreciate different things in life/ in a person as I get older.
     
    Then I met P.
     
    He is not the typical type of guy I used to go out with, so I didn’t take our first date seriously. Yet we have had so much fun during date, we never spent a day apart ever since. Again, strange. It is hard to describe this feeling, besides the fun, the passion, its just easy. It is the easiest relationship I have ever been in. No game, no rules, no anticipation, it is simply two people want to be around each other. He makes me laugh, he makes me feel peaceful, safe, and comfortable, most importantly he makes me happy.
     
     
    Friendship is hard to come by, seriously.
     
    I just found out that a “close” girlfriend of mine for the past few years has been talking behind my back for the past year and half. Spreading rumors and twisting facts (sounds like “The Hills” doesn’t it?) I couldn't believe I have to deal with this at this age. This was no easier than get over a hard break-up. It feels like betrayal, it makes me question my judgement of character. Well, then I realized, you should toss a bad friendship as you toss a bad relationship: It is just not worth it.


Sunday, 12 April 2009

  • I don't know how many people still on xanga since facebook took over the whole world. Honestly, i like it here. I like sharing thoughts with others and read what people have to say. (i really couldn't care less about someone is late for dinner...seriously? seriously!)

    I dont' like texting, well not that i hate it, i just prefer a real conversation vs. typing with your fingers all day long. When is the last time you have a real conversation with some old friends who you just found on facebook? Internet is a crazy thing, it could make everyone so close (too close!!) yet so far.

    This economy is driving everyone insane, i feel bad for those who lost their jobs, however, ironically, the tough time makes many take time to re-define themselves. When everything is gone, what do you have left?

    I am happier and happier each year, despite the fact that I am pushing 30 in a couple of years. (OMG i am going to cry) I've grown and learned so much from everyday and everyone around me, good and bad. Life is not fair, now learn how to accept it.When I get older, I really started to appreciate the values and morals my parents taught me. Those values help me through my own rough times, keep me in faith and make me believe that God's rewards come from many different ways. I've tried to surround myself by people who have my best interest in heart, filter out the ones who don't. I am grateful for having so many wonderful people in my life.

    Ok, its getting really corny. Peace out..

     



Friday, 10 April 2009

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Monday, 26 May 2008

  • Are you on the right track?

    You are in battery park city and want to go to 125th & broadway. You can take the Westside highway, FDR, local...there might be more traffic on one route than others, but as long as you are heading towards the right direction, eventually you will get there. But if you took the manhattan bridge, brooklyn bridge or NJ turnpike, you may drive faster on these roads(...ok not really but you know what i mean) but you will never get to the destination.

    You don't like your current job, or not LOVING your job. But you are in the right industry and right department. You may go to business school, take on extra responsiblities, work 80 hours a week...as long as you are doing whatever it takes to get the promotion, eventually, you will get it. If you keep complaining about it, slacking at work, jump in between jobs...you will never get to where you want to be.

    You met a guy/girl, he/she is not exactly how you pictured the "Miss/Mr Perfect" but he/she has the major qualities that you are looking for, he/she shares the same values as you. You  two may have difficult times here and there, just like the traffic when you are driving to 125th and broadway; you may question yourself if you are even the right track. Once again, as long as both of you heading towards the right direction. You will get there. Otherwise, you will stuck in the bridges and tunnels wondering why you are still single.

    Now the million dollar question is: How do you know if you are on the right track?

     

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